Different people have different meanings to what friendship is all about, and just as it is peculiar to human beings, everyone needs someone they can call their best friend, someone who is trustworthy, Someone to Lean On in times of despair.
Every friendship has what binds them together; it is because of their common identity, the level of sacrifices they can make for each one another.
Different people have what makes them call someone best friend, but to me you must possess some certain qualities to be called a friend.
So if whoever you are calling best friend does not have these features i will mention below, you must stop calling him/her your friend, so keep reading to know the qualities of a good friend.
If you are a kind of person who success seduces just like me, I make sure I associate with people that share the same lines of thoughts with me.
I might be your friend today, but the long lasting of our friendship depends on who you keep showcasing yourself to be.
On my own part I will do everything possible with a targeted Vision that will lead our unity to what everyone will want to follow suit.
As my friend, if you do not possess good qualities as I expected, I will do everything Possible to change you, but if you prove to be someone who cannot be changed, then I will rather Focus my energy on what I can change and not what I don’t have power over.
If we are together and people call us friends but you possess all these attributes, then you are not my friend. Click To Tweet
If whenever we are together the only thing you talk about is women and drinks, then you are not my friend. Click To Tweet
You will never tell me the truth, and whenever it turns out bad against me you would say you wanted to tell but, then you are not my friend. Click To Tweet
You said you are my friend and you cannot keep my little secret, then you are not my friend. Click To Tweet
You said you are my friend, but whenever I am not around you say all kinds of evils against me, then you are not my friend. Click To Tweet
I called you a friend, but you cannot support me with words of advice when I am in distress or I am confused, then you are not my friend. Click To Tweet
I take you as my friend in school, but the only thing you ever talk about is how protective it is to join cultism, then you are not my friend. Click To Tweet
I call my friend, but when ever am i seriously in need of money the only advice you can give me is to join prostitution, then you are not my friend. Click To Tweet
I am your friend, but whenever I am wearing your clothes or using any of your things the whole world must know, then you are not my friend. Click To Tweet
I call you a friend, but you always pretend not to have even when you have, just because you don't want to help me, then you are not my friend. Click To Tweet
If you must be my best friend, you must be someone who can open up his heart to tell me the truth even if it will hurt.
So, who do you call friends? What kind of qualities did he/she possess?
If you are just like every other person that chooses friends based on who comes around without knowing who they truly are, then you are one of your biggest problems.
If you consider everybody that smiles at you or comes around to celebrate your success as trustful or best friends, you are in trouble.
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Never you think anyone that comes around when you are doing fine are friends. Not even some best of friends. Not every hand of friendship remains the same forever.
So, i advise you to be careful in choosing your friends or in dealing with those that come around when the light is shining.
Also; as you are expecting others to be good friends, you must also be more than a best friend to others. Just like the saying goes; ‘Do to others what you want others to do to you’.
So, with our collective efforts we can make this world a paradise we hope for.
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